netlink: Zero-initialize writer structures allocated on the stack

netlink: Zero-initialize writer structures allocated on the stack

The prevailing pattern seems to be to simply initialize all fields to
zero.  Without this, it's possible to trigger a branch on uninitialized
memory, specifically, when testing nw->ignore_limit in
nlmsg_refill_buffer().

Initialize the writer structure in a couple of functions where this is
necessary.

Reported by:	KMSAN
Reviewed by:	melifaro
Sponsored by:	The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D38213

(cherry picked from commit 7a78ae88659e0f6a901574d17672d1ccdc3e971b)