Include eventhandler.h in more compilation units

Include eventhandler.h in more compilation units

This was enumerated with exhaustive search for sys/eventhandler.h includes,
cross-referenced against EVENTHANDLER_* usage with the comm(1) utility.  Manual
checking was performed to avoid redundant includes in some drivers where a
common os_bsd.h (for example) included sys/eventhandler.h indirectly, but it is
possible some of these are redundant with driver-specific headers in ways I
didn't notice.

(These CUs did not show up as missing eventhandler.h in tinderbox.)

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