Add MNTK_LOOKUP_EXCL_DOTDOT struct mount flag, which specifies to the

Add MNTK_LOOKUP_EXCL_DOTDOT struct mount flag, which specifies to the
lookup code that dotdot lookups shall override any shared lock
requests with the exclusive one. The flag is useful for filesystems
which sometimes need to upgrade shared lock to exclusive inside the
VOP_LOOKUP or later, which cannot be done safely for dotdot, due to
dvp also locked and causing LOR.

In collaboration with:	    pho
MFC after:	3 weeks