zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@14b43fbd9 (master) into main

zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@14b43fbd9 (master) into main

Notable upstream pull request merges:
  #12271 Tinker with slop space accounting with dedup
  #12279 Fix ARC ghost states eviction accounting
  #12284 Add Module Parameter Regarding Log Size Limit
  #12300 Introduce dsl_dir_diduse_transfer_space()
  #12314 Optimize allocation throttling
  #12348 Minor ARC optimizations
  #12350 Detect HAVE_LARGE_STACKS at compile time
  #12356 Use SET_ERROR for more errors in FreeBSD vnops
  #12375 FreeBSD: Ignore make_dev_s() errors
  #12378 FreeBSD: Switch from MAXPHYS to maxphys on FreeBSD 13+

Obtained from:	OpenZFS
OpenZFS commit:	14b43fbd9c13d802409ed886bb6b66fd528fb209