if_ovpn: ensure we're in vnet context when calling sorele()

if_ovpn: ensure we're in vnet context when calling sorele()

We reference count to ensure we don't release the socket while we still
have data in flight. That means that we can end up releasing the socket
from ovpn_encrypt_tx_cb().

We must have a vnet context set when calling sorele() (which asserts
this from within sofree()), so move the CURVNET_SET()/CURVNET_RESTORE()
to ensure this is the case.

While here also add a couple of assertions to make this more obvious,
and to ease future debugging.

Sponsored by:	Rubicon Communications, LLC ("Netgate")
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D37326