Move from passing a wildcard boolean to a general set up lookup flags into

Move from passing a wildcard boolean to a general set up lookup flags into
in_pcb_lport(), in_pcblookup_local(), and in_pcblookup_hash(), and similarly
for IPv6 functions.  In the future, we would like to support other flags
relating to locking strategy.

This change doesn't appear to modify the KBI in practice, as callers already
passed in INPLOOKUP_WILDCARD rather than a simple boolean.

MFC after:      3 weeks
Reviewed by:    bz
Sponsored by:   Juniper Networks, Inc.