This is actually several different bugs:
- The code is not designed to handle inpcb deletion after interface deletion
- add reference for inpcb membership
- The multicast address has to be removed from interface lists when the refcount
goes to zero OR when the interface goes away
- decouple list disconnect from refcount (v6 only for now)
- ifmultiaddr can exist past being on interface lists
- add flag for tracking whether or not it's enqueued
- deferring freeing moptions makes the incpb cleanup code simpler but opens the
door wider still to races
- call inp_gcmoptions synchronously after dropping the the inpcb lock
Fundamentally multicast needs a rewrite - but keep applying band-aids for now.