Further split nhop creation and rtable operations.

Further split nhop creation and rtable operations.

As nexthops are immutable, some operations such as route attribute changes
 require nexthop fetching, forking, modification and route switching.
These operations are not atomic, so they may need to be retried multiple
 times in presence of multiple speakers changing the same route.

This change introduces "synchronisation" primitive: route_update_conditional(),
 simplifying logic for route changes and upcoming multipath operations.

Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D26216