Remove the IPFIREWALL_FORWARD_EXTENDED option and make it on by default as it always was

Remove the IPFIREWALL_FORWARD_EXTENDED option and make it on by default as it always was
in older versions of FreeBSD. This option is pointless as it is needed in just
about every interesting usage of forward that I have ever seen. It doesn't make
the system any safer and just wastes huge amounts of develper time
when the system doesn't behave as expected when code is moved from
4.x to 6.x It doesn't make
the system any safer and just wastes huge amounts of develper time
when the system doesn't behave as expected when code is moved from
4.x to 6.x  or 7.x
Reviewed by:	glebius
MFC after:	1 week