zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@a86e08941 (master) into main

zfs: merge openzfs/zfs@a86e08941 (master) into main

Notable upstream pull request merges:
  #9078:  log xattr=sa create/remove/update to ZIL
  #11919: Cross-platform xattr user namespace compatibility
  #13014: Report dnodes with faulty bonuslen
  #13016: FreeBSD: Fix zvol_cdev_open locking
  #13019: spl: Don't check FreeBSD rwlocks for double initialization
  #13027: Fix clearing set-uid and set-gid bits on a file when
          replying a write
  #13031: Add enumerated vdev names to 'zpool iostat -v' and
          'zpool list -v'
  #13074: Enable encrypted raw sending to pools with greater ashift
  #13076: Receive checks should allow unencrypted child datasets
  #13098: Avoid dirtying the final TXGs when exporting a pool
  #13172: Fix ENOSPC when unlinking multiple files from full pool

Obtained from:	OpenZFS
OpenZFS commit:	a86e089415679cf1b98eb424a159bb36aa2c19e3