1. Move thread list flags into new separate member, and atomically

1. Move thread list flags into new separate member, and atomically
   put DEAD thread on GC list, this closes a race between pthread_join
   and thr_cleanup.
2. Introduce a mutex to protect tcb initialization, tls allocation and
   deallocation code in rtld seems no lock protection or it is broken,
   under stress testing, memory is corrupted.

Reviewed by: deischen
patch partly provided by: deischen