irdma(4): upgrade to 1.2.17-k

irdma(4): upgrade to 1.2.17-k

Update Intel irdma driver to version 1.2.17-k

Notable changes:
- pf-reset handling improvements, including fixes in communication with if_ice(4)
- avoid racing when handling various events
- adding sw stats sysctls
- hand over pe_criterr handling from ice(4) to irdma(4)
- debug prints adjustments
- fix crash after changes in irdma_add_mqh_ifa_cb

Additional fixes in stable/13 but not in original cherry-picked commit:
- code appearance improvements
- bug fixes in fbsd_kcompat.c
- avoid waiting procedures under lock in irdma_add_mqh_ifa_cb
- busy wait for manage_qhash
- stats don't need to be RDTUN, RD is enough

Signed-off-by: Bartosz Sobczak <bartosz.sobczak@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Joyner <erj@FreeBSD.org>
Reviewed by:	erj@
Sponsored by:	Intel Corporation
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D41425

(cherry picked from commit 01fbb86991d524288a785b544c29d9c5ea1b61fb)