fork: Suspend other threads if both RFPROC and RFMEM are not set

fork: Suspend other threads if both RFPROC and RFMEM are not set

Otherwise, a multithreaded parent process may trigger races in
vm_forkproc() if one thread calls rfork() with RFMEM set and another
calls rfork() without RFMEM.

Also simplify vm_forkproc() a bit, vmspace_unshare() already checks to
see if the address space is shared.

Reported by:	syzbot+0aa7c2bec74c4066c36f@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Reported by:	syzbot+ea84cb06937afeae609d@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Reviewed by:	kib
MFC after:	1 week
Sponsored by:	The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D30220