kern: cpuset: resolve race between cpuset_lookup/cpuset_rel

kern: cpuset: resolve race between cpuset_lookup/cpuset_rel

The race plays out like so between threads A and B:

1. A ref's cpuset 10
2. B does a lookup of cpuset 10, grabs the cpuset lock and searches
   cpuset_ids
3. A rel's cpuset 10 and observes the last ref, waits on the cpuset lock
   while B is still searching and not yet ref'd
4. B ref's cpuset 10 and drops the cpuset lock
5. A proceeds to free the cpuset out from underneath B

Resolve the race by only releasing the last reference under the cpuset lock.
Thread A now picks up the spinlock and observes that the cpuset has been
revived, returning immediately for B to deal with later.

Reported by:	syzbot+92dff413e201164c796b@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Reviewed by:	markj
MFC after:	1 week
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D27498